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I Am Thankful for Stephanie

There are a lot of good things to say about Steph. She is a dedicated spouse and mother. She constantly thinks about and concerns herself with the needs of others, and especially her family. She is always willing to sacrifice her needs or postpone her wants to cater to her children.

She is especially good at being loving and patient with me. We have had numerous disagreements that have revealed my flaws. While I don't get off Scott free she has remained by my side despite my flaws and has continually been an inspiration to do better. More than anything, she has always been an inspiration to do better. Her compassion, spirituality, dedication to morality and good, appreciation of talent, and general consistency all define her and make her a lighthouse to me, guiding me to be more like her and regain my direction.

I am a better person today because of her and I'm glad to have her.

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